Here's something people love to say once you pass a certain age: "You know, you have more years behind you than in front of you." I hear it and I think — do you, though? Do you actually know that? Because I don't. What I do know is this: my mother passed at 36. And the year I turned 40, I realized I had officially lived longer than she ever got to. Let that sit for a second. That moment didn't break me. It cracked me open. Because standing on the other side of the age my moth